WHAT DO YOU DO BESIDES SHOOTING TO FIND BALANCE? Don’t Let Self Defense Keep You From Living Your Life.

Shooting is fun and gratifying, providing immediate feedback and instant gratification. Once you start down that path, it’s easy to get swept up in it, dedicating every spare moment to becoming a better shooter. But it’s also important to find balance in life.

In the pursuit of becoming a more competent defender, we can neglect or avoid other aspects of life.

Varg Freeborn poses the question: “Who’s playing with your wife’s hair?”

The point is that there’s more to life than just forging yourself into the ultimate fighting machine.

It’s good to have other outlets in life, either as a way to decompress or as an artistic outlet.

For me, I enjoy cooking, mixing drinks, and geeking out over coffee, in addition to my interest in cigars and watches.

There is certainly value in beauty for the sake of beauty, whether that be visual, auditory, or gustatory.

Plus, being able to shift between interests helps to stave off burnout.

Not to mention that learning new skills can help improve mental dexterity.

So, what do you do when you need to recharge?

The Suited Shootist
Alex Sansone took his first formal pistol class in 2009, and has since accumulated almost 500 total hours of open enrollment training from many of the nation's top instructors including Massad Ayoob, Craig Douglas, Tom Givens, Gabe White, Cecil Burch, Chuck Haggard, Darryl Bolke, and many others. Spending his professional life in the corporate world, Alex quickly realized incongruities between "best practices" in the defensive world, and the practical realities of his professional and social limitations. "I've never carried a gun professionally. I'm just a yuppie suburbanite that happens to live an armed lifestyle. Having worked in the corporate arena for the last decade, I've discovered that a lot of the "requirements" and norms of gun carriers at large aren't necessarily compatible with that professional environment. I also have a pretty diverse social background, having grown up in the Northeast, and there are many people in my life that are either gun-agnostic or uncomfortable with the idea of private gun ownership. This has afforded me not only insights into how we are perceived by different subcultures, but how to manage and interact with people that may not share your point of view without coming across as combative or antisocial. This is why my focus is the overlooked social aspects of the armed lifestyle."